Lauren Skuba October 9, 2018 Couples Therapy, Emotional attunement, Connection, Noticing your partner What Do You Notice? Lauren Skuba October 9, 2018 Couples Therapy, Emotional attunement, Connection, Noticing your partner What you notice in your relationship shapes how you feel about it. This post explores how easy it is to slip into focusing on what your partner isn’t doing, and how shifting that attention can make a real difference.